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xianaxisolationx
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Okay, so I had this boyfriend right and me and him were together a little over a year, needless to say he cheated on me so we broke up. alrighty so now the important part, Stephen and I were apart for about three months in that time I tried out a new relationship, however, I hid it from him because he's the type to overreact and start problems. So in this relationship I ended up hooking up with the guy and it just felt wrong. I basically figured out that even after what Stephen did to me I'm in love with the kid. So basically I broke up with the other guy. So now here's the problem, I told Stephen how I felt about him but I didn't mention it was the whole sex thing that made me realize I really do love him, should I tell him? D: I don't know because let me give you guys a few facts about Stephens character. 1. He's very protective over me, even more so after we broke up. 2. He likes to cause problems with guys and me. Even just the friends. 3. He's actually a sweet heart. 4. He isn't the type to hold back how he's feeling about anything, whether it's people objects or emotions.

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Question. Why do you still like the guy even if he cheated on you? You should mvoe forward and not look back. Even if he promises, promises, PROMISES not to cheat, he will. He's that kinda guy. You shouldn't tell him, and move on with your life, and forget about it, just make sure it doesn't happen again.

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Yea, everyone says that and I've honestly tried. There's no one else I wanna be with. I mean it may sound stupid but I wanna be with him forever. And I know he wants to be with me too, I wish I could just brush off the cheating thing but it makes it like impossible to trust him. He even moved out of the city so he could focus on a job and his education for me. He doesn't want friends cus he wants to make himself better and not get brought down by parties and stuff.

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So he's done all that, but he still cheated on you? Don't trust him. Ever. Again. Like I said, it may sound harsh, he's not the one for you, unless you want to live with a guy who might cheat on you every other second of the day. Balance your options. Yes, he may be out in the city doing a job, education, for you, maybe, who knows. could be lip service. That's good. But you said it yourself. It's impossible to trust him.

A guy once said, " At times it lies...Do not be decieved by the 'heart'." Hearts can be decieved, quite easily. So you either enter into a relationship, which you've said you've wanted to last forever, with a guy who has cheated on you, whom you don't trust. and might cheat on you again. Is that what you really want? To be in constant paranoid fear that he's going to hit it off with another tramp?

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You have a really good point. Thanks :/

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I know how you feel, I've been in the same situation before, my boyfriend now is like that, honestly don't tell him especially if he doesn't ask, it might just cause problems, you don't sound stupid, your heart chooses who you love, not your mind. I have been on and off with a crazy, protective and hot headed dude for over a year and it's just best not to bring those things up, they always make the situation worse.

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Kammi, text me pleaseee.

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I happen to agree with what Kammi has said here ma'am, why are you still with him? I think regardless of you trying to stay with him and hiding the other relationship, you will still always have that cloud of doubt over your head that he will do it again. Not to mention why you should have to hide anything from him, he is the one that fethed up, he needs to deal with the conseqences that you may have tried to move on after he ruined the relationship.

Just a question also, did he try to explain to you "why" he cheated? I mean if you reckon he is feeling like your the one for him, why did he do it?

Like Kammi said, he may become a repeat offender, I hope you make the right decision whether its being wih him or not.
As for telling him about your relationship during your break from him, I would not hide it. Its nothing on your part to be ashamed of, since you were 10000% in the right, and he cannot do anything about that because he was the one that ****ed up. I will always suggest getting things out in the open for the reason that secrets never stay secrets forever and they work much the same way as leaving garbage out in the sun, both secrets and garbage get worse over time and are horrible to finally behold later on.

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I happen to agree with much of Roy's advice. I think you should tell him, be open with him. Besides, you weren't with him at the time and had the chance to move on, so it was well into your rights to do so. Also, letting it hide in secret is bad. Very bad.

Yes, the reason behind the cheating is another indicator, but I don't know that reason so I can't base anything. But, I'm sad to announce that he may do it again. I'm a firm believer in: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater. Well...not always, but for the most part. I'm sure next time, he'll just try to find a better way from hiding it from you. It's a common occurrence among people over and over again, and I've seen it. You're trust with him is shattered, it has every right to be.

So yeah, my thoughts in a mumble jumble.

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