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Financial problems.

So I really need to rant.... My mom lost her job a few months back and got into legal trouble because her boss accused her of stealing $10,000. At that time my dad was still employed making about $1,500 a week by himself. My father is a seasonal employee and he was recently laid off and put on unemployment. I am the only family member in my household whom is working and our salary from both parents has gone from a pretty stable $2,000 a week to $400. This has now create problems for me because I'm expected to "help out." Now before I countinue I will be the first person to tell you that I'm a spoiled child, I'm not rotten but I'm very accustomed to having nice things. This isn't because my parents love and adore me this is because we have a terrible relationship and they always "heal" our fights with gifts so to speak. Now I have my own vehicle that I pay half of the payment for, we couldn't afford the truck payment for mine my mothers and my fathers vehicle so my moms truck got repoed. Now I need to either take over the entire $600 payment or share with my mother and countinue to pay the half. I have given my parents sooo much money over the last months and its to the point where cumulatively my parents owe me appox. $1000 but I don't know where my money is going...they always tell me they need this random $50 here or the random $100 there for a "bill"...but what ****ing bills are they paying with it? Not the vehicle cuz they wanna take the other two, not cable that's shut off not the house we could lose it, not gas there is none, not the phones cuz they're shut off, none of these bills are being paid, they have food stamps right now so it's not for that. I saw my stepfather whom I call "dad" with Cocain before and I'm terrified that my mother and him are into drugs or atleast my mother because she borrows the most money from me and Everytime she borrows the money she begs me not to tell my dad...she overdrew MY bank account the other day by $200 dollars and even drew money from a closed account...I'm so saddened, fearful and angry that I don't know what to do. My moms always been a good person and so has my dad I don't wanna believe they're into drugs or stealing money and honestly as I'm typing this I'm bawling. I've had no one to talk to, no one to help me nothing. My Vegas trip was the best ting ever and that was even all paid for by my grandparents. My parents tell me I don't do anything for them when I'm practically paying for everything. My school work is suffering and I need to graduate. Oh my god..you don't need to say anything back guys I jus wanted to vent. So thanks for listening.

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Iana, with all the crap I have been through my entire life I want to give you one piece of advice that fixed everything: Move out. Move wherever you can. Seriously. Are you 18 yet? If not, then move to your grandparents. If its in a different state, change schools if you have too. Unless you really don't want to change schools and get out of the house, but sweetheart the longer you stay, the more stressed you will be. I amfinallyout of the house after 19 years of dealing with a mother who turned into an alcoholic, and this past week of living with my boyfriend has been the least amount of stress I've ever experienced. Stay away from it. Not to mention, open up a seperate account, if your not old enough ask your grandma to co sign for you. Get your own account and keep your money in there. Limit your parents to a certain amount of money and just tell them you have none left, and if they check your account you'll be telling the truth. It's a sad world but sometimes you need to put yourself before anyone else, you have a great life ahead of you, don't let these financial problems step in. Do what you need to do for yourself, and definitely vent all you want on here because I know I'm not the only one who's lived through hell and I know everyone has great advice for you. Stay strong Iana.

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Sarah it means a lot for you to give me advice, I haven't had anyone give me advice yet and it's making me cry cuz I'm a little baby xD I'm sorry I never responded to the book character request or the character page thing I keep forgetting. Go ahead and use my characters lol and ill try to change those years as soon as possible.

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Oh, she just borrowed my Christmas gift from my Grampa too. Another $200...cool.

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Iana, I tried to send you a message. I know exactly what your going through. if you can text somehow, you can text me. Or if you can get on facebook you can add me, that way I can message you on there, my mom was addicted to drugs really bad, spending bill money on pills, she let cars get repo'ed to get her pills she would take money from me and my sister, she overdrafted my account, then my sisters. And honestly, I got very stressed out between her and my ex taking my money (who was on pills really bad too) that I started doing pills, really bad.... I got addicted to pills too. I got in such a huge debt, I'm still fightin my way out. I'm no longer on pills though, I'm only on one, its called suboxone, I don't know if you guys have ever heard of it, but I've been clean since me and chan got together. But my number is (423)440-2964, and my name is Kelsey Shay Lea Castle for facebook. So if you want to talk, I'm here for you, even though we barely know each other, I know how you feel... me & chan got our own place in february and just recently my mom moved in with us, she doesn't work, I'm still supporting her habits (the suboxone and smoking along with her food) plus my habits (smoking and my medication) then chan smokes. My car is ****ing up, the starter is going out, I can't afford to fix it I'm making minium wage only work about 20 hours a week. Chan makes 8.50 and gets 40 hours a week but her works in virginia and we live in tn so that's double taxes being taken out. Not to mention our bills; rent, water, electric, cigs, gas, food, internet, phone. It costs more then what we make. Its a huge mess. I was never 'spoiled' growing up, I hardly got anything from my family. I didn't have a childhood, I was forced to grow up... I had to work for everything I got and everything I hve. My parents didn't help me get my car I worked my ass off to get that piece of ****. They didn't help me get my house, they don't help me out at all. Hell, I had to go today to title max to get a loan on my car, which kills me because that car is my everything, hell me & chan lived in before... but I had to go out and get a loan for 800 bucks so I can attempt to find a running car, that my family won't help me with. My dad found a car that 12000 but I have to come up with the other 400 but my dad will happily go out and buy my sister a 4000 dollar car.... wow, I'm sorry I began ranting too, but if you need any help or just someone to talk tojust get ahold of me. I'm sorry all that is happening to you iana. :( it sucks I know... keep your head up it will eventually get better, there is always light at the end of the black tunnel.

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Thank you so much Kelsey, these paragraphs of advice are really helping me actually, I actually feel like I have a right to be upset. I'm being taken advantage of. Thanks, and I added you

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Lmao. Looks like life sucks for a whole bunch of different people now. X3

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Iana. I love you babe. And I totally know how you feel. My mom used to steal any money I got from me. And I'm pretty sure she still does because I'm already missing birthday cards... You have every right to be upset. You know I'm always here if you need to rant. Or just some one to talk to.

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.....I don't see why this is funny? And thanks Kammi I love you too boo.

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Yeah, The fact that we are all going through hard times right now is no laughing matter. You should really think about things before you type. That was kinda rude...

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